How to Reignite Your Creative Dreams After Becoming a Mom

For many women, motherhood brings joy, purpose, and meaning. But it can also put personal dreams on hold. At Reel Mamas Chicago, we meet countless moms who once had big dreams—directing films, writing scripts, acting, editing—but who tucked those dreams away in the name of survival.

The good news? Dreams deferred are not dreams denied.

Here are steps to reignite your creativity and return to your passion:

1. Give yourself permission. You don’t need anyone’s approval to pick your dream back up. The fact that you still think about it means it still matters.

2. Start small. You don’t need to write a full screenplay tomorrow. Start with a short scene, a monologue, or a storyboard.

3. Find inspiration. Watch your favorite films again. Journal. Talk to other creatives. Inspiration is all around you.

4. Create a supportive environment. Whether it’s a spouse, a friend, or an online community, surround yourself with people who will cheer you on.

5. Set micro-goals. Small, achievable goals create momentum. Instead of “make a film,” try “research a topic” or “film one scene.”

Motherhood doesn’t have to end your creative journey. It can enrich it. You’ve got more wisdom, grit, and heart than ever before. Let that power your storytelling.